tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post2923793277369785169..comments2023-11-03T07:37:35.682-04:00Comments on Whirling Betty: what's missingB.S.http://www.blogger.com/profile/08724883690591213622noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-27027559131615551582008-11-13T19:06:00.000-05:002008-11-13T19:06:00.000-05:00I definitely have known the nagging feeling of som...I definitely have known the nagging feeling of something being missing for years...<BR/><BR/>Self-esteem is everything, you are right, Betty.<BR/><BR/>But for me, I had to examine my past habits and beliefs in order to understand what I was doing that kept me behaving with self-hate...<BR/><BR/>You are worthy. I know it, and I celebrate with you the moments when you feel it inside - and your soul continues accumulating them :)<BR/><BR/>(hugs)Constancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-19950294630224950912008-11-11T22:28:00.000-05:002008-11-11T22:28:00.000-05:00Dear Patti, I do think that where you live can hav...Dear Patti, <BR/><BR/>I do think that where you live can have a lot to do with it. I'd love to have a chance soon to test that theory!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BettyB.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08724883690591213622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-25449422791734074052008-11-11T19:05:00.000-05:002008-11-11T19:05:00.000-05:00You chose soy milk over trick or treat candy?! I a...You chose soy milk over trick or treat candy?! I am in awe of you Betty.<BR/>I get the nagging "somethings missing" feeling too. I think mainly because i'm not satisfied with where I live.Monogram Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00201245389134780751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-19661045937006205862008-11-08T15:30:00.000-05:002008-11-08T15:30:00.000-05:00Dear Lynilu,Even though you experience it regularl...Dear Lynilu,<BR/><BR/>Even though you experience it regularly, it certainly doesn't seem to be affecting you adversely. That nagging appears to be fairly universal, and maybe it's one of our biggest challenges- learning how to live with it. A mentor of mine used to call it "learning to live comfortably with unresolved problems."<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BettyB.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08724883690591213622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-51870071966100893762008-11-08T14:14:00.000-05:002008-11-08T14:14:00.000-05:00That nagging feeling. Yes, I know it well. I exper...That nagging feeling. Yes, I know it well. I experience it regularly. I've had some clarity recently that has helped me in some ways, and it has made it worse in others. I have become more keenly aware of my aloneness, and it is bittersweet. But I also know that times like this make me stronger in the long run. That is why life is beautiful. :)Lyniluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742585512852240355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-61730286340626967212008-11-07T21:43:00.000-05:002008-11-07T21:43:00.000-05:00Dear Waterlearner,As you say, awareness, appreciat...Dear Waterlearner,<BR/><BR/>As you say, awareness, appreciation and acceptance can solve a lot of our perceived problems. My problems diminish or ecven disappear when I'm on track with this.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BettyB.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08724883690591213622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-35168739283399519502008-11-07T20:40:00.000-05:002008-11-07T20:40:00.000-05:00I know what you mean. But like what you aptly desc...I know what you mean. But like what you aptly described, maybe what we truly need is the awareness to appreciate the present that we are facing at this very moment.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I also feel that some short-circuit must have taken place a long my growing up process. But as I grow older, I accept that feeling as part and parcel of being mortal. We have our strengths and at the same time, we have to accept our imperfections for us to be truly complete.<BR/><BR/>Have a Jolly Weekend!WaterLearnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08139805235427951649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-958106711212803662008-11-07T19:19:00.000-05:002008-11-07T19:19:00.000-05:00Dear Laurie,Yes.....I know that you know. And YOU...Dear Laurie,<BR/><BR/>Yes.....I know that you know. And YOU TOO are worthy!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BettyB.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08724883690591213622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17516221.post-86799821434547859082008-11-07T19:14:00.000-05:002008-11-07T19:14:00.000-05:00Yes....You know I know that nagging feeling.....Yo...Yes....You know I know that <BR/>nagging feeling.....<BR/>You ARE very worthy of the good <BR/>things life has to offer :) <BR/><BR/>I wish you the best!!!<BR/><BR/>HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01645677037265997958noreply@blogger.com